3 Month Plan

So, my plan right now is to try to get to 150 pounds by the end of this year.  At 154, I officially switch from obese to overweight.

At 150, my plan is to take new dating profile photos and subscribe to one of those paid dating sites.  It will either be eHarmony or Match.  I haven't decided yet.  At that point, I'm going to see if being 150 makes a lick of difference in my response rate - meaning does anyone contact me.

As it stands right now, I rarely get contacted by anyone on the free dating sites I'm on.  Maybe one guy a month and he is usually just looking for a hook up.

I'm really curious and scared to know if being 150 is going to make that big a difference.  Is losing 10 pounds going to change anything? They say you go down a dress size for every 10 pounds you lose.  So, will I be a size 12 pant size at 150, a size 8 dress?  It sure would be nice.

My fear is that I'm still going to be my fat ginormous self, wasting money, as, same as always, no guys express any interest.

Maybe I should try messaging guys who seem interesting again.  You know, taking charge and being the guy.  It has never worked before.  Most guys just ignore my message.  The few that reply disappear after a message or too.  They just are not interested.  If they were, they would have contacted me first.