WIIFM

Women are the gatekeepers to sexuality, men are the gatekeepers to commitment.

I'm more than willing to give you all the sex you want.  All you have to give me is commitment.  It doesn't sound all that hard to me.

I hate it when I hear divorced people say stuff like, "I just wasn't lucky with who I picked for my first marriage and that is why it failed" or "They changed."  or whatever.

Newsflash - people who don't divorce?  It's not luck.  And, Newsflash, people ALWAYS change.

If your relationship failed, it failed only because of your lack of willingness to make it work.  Pure and simple.  I have a list of things I'm looking for in a man.  It really isn't that long or picky of a list.  I find men who meet it ALL the time.  And, I could make a happy relationship work until the end of time with ANY of these men.  I just need to find one of these men who wants to trade commitment for sex, with me.

Happy Thursday

A new guy messaged me on Tuesday, who I really liked.  We exchanged messaged for about an hour before I had to stop for bed.  I was hoping to hear from him yesterday, but not a peep.  I guess he wasn't as interested as he lead me to believe.  Totally bummed.

Plus, last night, I weighed in at 163.  At the end of the day, I'm always my highest and I tend to lose 3 pounds by the morning.  So, I was really excited to see some 160 action.  No such luck.  Weighed in at 161.2.  No progress on that front.  But, my body fat percentage was the lowest it has been.

No Eye Candy

Did you know, not a single fatigue wearing person was spotted at lunch today.  It's like they knew I was coming and decided to avoid me.  =(  Or maybe it was casual Tuesday, you don't have to wear your fatigues today!

Their loss!  They didn't get to see sexy amazing me in my dress and heals.

Moon and Sun

Did you see the moon at sunset on Sunday?  A large orange orb low in the sky.  It was amazing.  And the sun this Monday sunrise?  A larger orange orb rising in the sky.  Really spectacular.  And, you could still see the full blue/gray moon in the sky as the sun rose.

Eye Candy Eye Candy Eye Candy

Tomorrow, my friend and I are going to Jersey Mike's for lunch.   If you go during the lunch hour, there is a ton of military eye candy eating lunch at the place.  I can't wait!  Fun Times!

Despite the playful post above, it's time for me to put my big girl panties on and makes some grown up decisions.   I have to decide if I want to renew my lease - I did, I signed it, and now I need to confirm if there is anything else I need to do with it.  It's ironic that this time last year I was considering moving to San Francisco at around this time.  There was this guy (isn't there always) and I said, give me a year and if we are still going strong, I'll move out to Cali when my lease is up.  We see how that went.

I need to renew my renters insurance.

I need to renew my car insurance.

I need to re-enroll in my medical benefits at work and decide how I want to do them.

I need to enroll in my company's 401K plan and start putting in 6% because that is what they will match.  I need to decide how I want that money in the 401K invested.

I Hate the Weekends

I hate the weekends so much.  I'm always so bored. The only thing I look forward to is hiking and I couldn't do it this weekend because of the rain. =(

I made a Rainbow Brite cake for a friend's birthday.  I'm about to go over to her house to celebrate, as soon as my nails dry.

I got my strapless bra.  34DDD or 34F, take your pick, and it fits pretty good. Guess that is my current bra size.

Took my blood pressure.  119/75.  So that is good.