Kiss and Tell: The Theme For February Is: Beauty

My plan for January was to not blog anything negative. I did that but I also planned to blog every day, which I didn't. My experiment was to see if thinking positively really does make a difference in how you feel and outcomes in life. It doesn't. Other than the first four days in January, the month was pretty bad but I'm not going to focus on that. I'm going to look forward.

2013 is the year I have big big plans and hope to see some good changes in my life. What I have accomplished in the first month of 2013 is the following:

Only blogged about the positive
Have taken the time to read almost every night (which was a goal for this year)
Can now jog for 30 minutes straight and do so twice a day (for 1 hours of jogging daily)
Lost 2 pounds
Lost 2% Body Fat
Gained 2% Body Muscle
Almost always wear a size small top
Purchased a pair of very tight 9/10 jeans
Learned that my bra size is no longer a 32F but a 30FF
Planned, Booked, and Paid for my trip to Canada which is coming up
Purchased a whole set of ski clothes for my trip to Canada for a good price - let's just say I'm thrilled I could even fit into the ski clothes as ski clothes for bigger people are HARD to come by
Started the process of Laser Hair Removal on my Face. It will be, at least, 6 months before it is complete.
Finally removed the two moles on my back that were bothering me
Have an appointment this weekend to discuss contacts
Have another appoint on Monday about getting a bump, caused by a busted mucus cell, on my lip removed
Purchased some very nice and sexy lingerie

Bra + Panty Set 1
Bra + Panty White Set 2
Bra + Panty Set 3 - And it looks like I got the last ones in my size of this so I'm totally happy because it is beautiful.
Sports Bra
Hanky Panky Underwear - White
Hanky Panky Underwear - Red

Managed to acquire some new winter clothes while ridding myself of those that are too big

I recently had the displeasure of coming across this blog: The Rules Revisited.

It's like a train wreak, you want to look away but you can't help but stare. The site confirms what I always knew about guys but hoped beyond hope that I was wrong. Basically, it outlines how truly shallow guys are. It gives advice to women for how best to get a man (do everything in your power to look hot) and, I'm sad to say, I think it is dead on.

When I first read the blog I swore I thought it was G's secret blog but the guy who writes it thinks just like G does. It isn't but still it does help give more insight into G. Not that I think he or the blog's author are right in their belief. I think they are wrong and I think their believe is going to end with them never being happy because if you chase outward beauty, it it like chasing a snowflake. It is beautiful but it's life is short and once you catch it it disappears.

If I had the time I would love to write a sister blog to this guys - similar but advice for guys from a woman's prospective focusing on the shallow elements like looks, success, career, power, and money.

But, any-who, that blog is what prompted me to make this month "Beauty - Improving Your Physical Self". Mostly, this is a way for me to gather my thoughts and keep myself on track but others out there might find the information useful.

I don't think there is anything wrong with trying to improve your outward appearance.

It helps you feel mentally better about yourself
It helps you be healthier
Which in turn, helps you feel physically better about yourself
It makes people treat you better
It makes you more desirable to males
Which in turn, helps increase your chance of getting a mate if that is your goal

So, below is an outline of topics I want to address. Probably not in this order and I'm sure I will be adding topics, but this is a start: